Nigel Green deVere Group Scam! Dealing with haters!
Whilst in our Dubai office recently someone asked how I deal with haters. It seems the better you do, the more people hate you, they said.
Think you have crazy people contacting you or commenting on your blog or on the internet? Me too. I’d love to share some of my favorite hater e-mails, internet scam reviews, and voicemails with you all one day. Everything from billionaire, to brankrupt, deVere Scam to even being accused of being married. It’ll make you feel better to hear the stories.
It is possible to learn to love haters. But it does take some know-how and tactical planning…
1.“What others think of you is none of your business”
This is one of my all time favorite quotes, although I don’t know who said it. The most important thing in life is to remain true to your values and never submit to the pressures or expectations people place on you. Worrying about what other people think is dangerous, it gives them control over you and means we don’t always do the right thing; instead, we do the thing that everybody wants us to do. Don’t waste your time trying to please everyone! Just be, do and offer your best!
2.If you are really effective at what you do, most of the things said about you will be negative
Being successful and the best at what you do, brings both haters and supporters. Some people appreciate success, some people don’t. The key is not to worry about what people think and keep doing what feels right to you (see point If you’re getting a lot of criticism, it means that you’re probably doing something right!
‘To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing.” Elbert Hubbard.
3.If someone tells you something cannot be done, it is just their way of saying they cannot do it
In little over 10 years we have built a global company, with over 70 offices serving 70,000 clients in 100 countries – Sounds impossible doesn’t it? The truth is that if you have a vision to build something on integrity and that provides the best service you can possibly offer, how can you fail? Our consultants are trained to the highest of standards, our customer service is impeccable and our compliance team regularly contacts our clients for feedback. If there’s something you want, just go for it even if people think it’s impossible!
4.“Living well is the best revenge.” (George Herbert)
The best way to counter-attack a hater is to make it blatantly obvious that their attack has had no impact on you. Let haters continue to live with their own resentment and anger, which most of the time has nothing to do with you in particular. Enjoy your life, have fun and in doing so you can guarantee that you are providing the best kind of revenge possible.
5.10% of people will find a way to take anything personally
Some people find it especially hard to emotionally appreciate that the world does not revolve entirely around them. Insecure people who are also highly ego-centred will tend to construct hypotheses about reality based on their anxieties. The lesson here is not to waste time taking everything personally, instead realise and expect that many people do. When dealing with haters, remain composed, use your head and avoid reactive responses as they are usually emotionally charged knee – jerk reactions devoid of all logic and reason that help to further inflame the situation.
6. “If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid” (Epictetus)
Knowledge is power – and to be the best you can possibly be you need to constantly learn, even if people think you are stupid or foolish. To do anything remotely interesting you need to train yourself to be effective at dealing with, responding to, even enjoying criticism… The reason deVere is the largest independent financial consultancy is because we provide knowledgeable, trusted advice and make sure our consultants remain fully up to date with ongoing training and support.
7. “Keep calm and carry on”
The slogan “Keep Calm and Carry On was a propaganda poster produced by the British government in 1939 during the beginning of the Second World War, intended to raise the morale of the British public in the aftermath of widely predicted mass air attacks on major cities. In the face of criticism it is vital that you keep calm and carry on towards achieving your objectives. Focus on impact, not approval. If you believe you can change the world, go for it! Do what you think is right and expect resistance and attackers along the way.
Maybe we should write a book of all things we’ve been accused of. I’ve no idea why people write the nonsense that they do . Maybe the Nigel Green deVere scam writers just have too much time on their hands. But if you get distracted by those scam writers you helped them achieve their objective.
Nigel Green deVere Group
Blog written 8th of April
It’s almost a year since I wrote this post and it’s interesting for me to review. This has been there most popular post on my blog and I find in talking with people they share my feelings.
The internet continues to be a place where face less people seem to want to drag down others. But I think more and more people realise this anonymous comments aren’t worth reading.
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